Fix argument removal suggestion around macros
Fixes#112437.
Fixes#113866.
Helps with #114255.
The issue was that `span.find_ancestor_inside(outer)` could previously return a span with a different expansion context from `outer`.
This happens for example for the built-in macro `panic!`, which expands to another macro call of `panic_2021!` or `panic_2015!`. Because the call site of `panic_20xx!` has not associated source code, its span currently points to the call site of `panic!` instead.
Something similar also happens items that get desugared in AST->HIR lowering. For example, `for` loops get two spans: One "inner" span that has the `.desugaring_kind()` kind set to `DesugaringKind::ForLoop` and one "outer" span that does not. Similar to the macro situation, both of these spans point to the same source code, but have different expansion contexts.
This causes problems, because joining two spans with different expansion contexts will usually[^1] not actually join them together to avoid creating "spaghetti" spans that go from the macro definition to the macro call. For example, in the following snippet `full_span` might not actually contain the `adjusted_start` and `adjusted_end`. This caused the broken suggestion / debug ICE in the linked issues.
```rust
let adjusted_start = start.find_ancestor_inside(shared_ancestor);
let adjusted_end = end.find_ancestor_inside(shared_ancestor);
let full_span = adjusted_start.to(adjusted_end)
```
To fix the issue, this PR introduces a new method, `find_ancestor_inside_same_ctxt`, which combines the functionality of `find_ancestor_inside` and `find_ancestor_in_same_ctxt`: It finds an ancestor span that is contained within the parent *and* has the same syntax context, and is therefore safe to extend. This new method should probably be used everywhere, where the returned span is extended, but for now it is just used for the argument removal suggestion.
Additionally, this PR fixes a second issue where the function call itself is inside a macro but the arguments come from outside the macro. The test is added in the first commit to include stderr diff, so this is best reviewed commit by commit.
[^1]: If one expansion context is the root context and the other is not.
