Lint node for `PRIVATE_BOUNDS`/`PRIVATE_INTERFACES` is the item which names the private type
The HIR that the `PRIVATE_BOUNDS` lint should be attached to is the item that has the *bounds*, not the private type. This PR also aligns this behavior with the `EXPORTED_PRIVATE_DEPENDENCIES` lint, which also requires putting the `allow` on the item that names the private type.
Fixes#115475
r? petrochenkov
e3b6122530