"try this" -> "try"
Current help messages contain a mix of "try", "try this", and one "try this instead". In the spirit of #10631, this PR adopts the first, as it is the most concise.
It also updates the `lint_message_conventions` test to catch cases of "try this".
(Aside: #10120 unfairly contained multiple changes in one PR. I am trying to break that PR up into smaller pieces.)
changelog: Make help messages more concise ("try this" -> "try").
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