Update rayon and rustc-rayon
This updates rayon for various tools and rustc-rayon for the compiler's parallel mode.
- rayon v1.3.1 -> v1.5.1
- rayon-core v1.7.1 -> v1.9.1
- rustc-rayon v0.3.1 -> v0.3.2
- rustc-rayon-core v0.3.1 -> v0.3.2
... and indirectly, this updates all of crossbeam-* to their latest versions.
Fixes#92677 by removing crossbeam-queue, but there's still a lingering question about how tidy discovers "runtime" dependencies. None of this is truly in the standard library's dependency tree at all.