Add a way to get shorter spans until `char` for pointing at defs
```rust
error[E0072]: recursive type `X` has infinite size
--> file.rs:10:1
|
10 | struct X {
| ^^^^^^^^ recursive type has infinite size
|
= help: insert indirection (e.g., a `Box`, `Rc`, or `&`) at some point to make `X` representable
```
vs
```rust
error[E0072]: recursive type `X` has infinite size
--> file.rs:10:1
|
10 | struct X {
| _^ starting here...
11 | | x: X,
12 | | }
| |_^ ...ending here: recursive type has infinite size
|
= help: insert indirection (e.g., a `Box`, `Rc`, or `&`) at some point to make `X` representable
```
Re: #35965, #38246. Follow up to #38328.
r? @jonathandturner