consider autoderef through user-defined `Deref` in `eager_or_lazy`
Fixes#10462
This PR handles autoderef in the `eager_or_lazy` util module and stops suggesting to change lazy to eager if autoderef in an expression goes through user defined `Deref` impls, e.g.
```rs
struct S;
impl Deref for S {
type Target = ();
fn deref(&self) -> &Self::Target { &() }
}
let _ = Some(()).as_ref().unwrap_or_else(|| &S); // autoderef `&S` -> `&()`
```
changelog: [`unnecessary_lazy_evaluations`]: don't suggest changing lazy evaluation to eager if autoderef goes through user-defined `Deref`
r? `@xFrednet` (because of the earlier review in #10864, might help for context here)
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