Fix validation when lowering `?` trait bounds
Pass the unlowered (`rustc_hir`) polarity to `lower_poly_trait_ref`.
This allows us to actually *validate* that generic args are actually valid on `?Trait` paths. This actually regressed in #113671 because that PR changed the behavior where we were inadvertently re-lowering paths as `BoundPolarity::Positive`, which was also coincidentally the only place we were enforcing the generics on `?Trait` paths were correct.