Remove in band lifetimes
As discussed in t-lang backlog bonanza, the `in_band_lifetimes` FCP closed in favor for the feature not being stabilized. This PR removes `#![feature(in_band_lifetimes)]` in its entirety.
Let me know if this PR is too hasty, and if we should instead do something intermediate for deprecate the feature first.
r? `@scottmcm` (or feel free to reassign, just saw your last comment on #44524)
Closes#44524