Move the Windows remove_dir_all impl into a module and make it more race resistant
This attempts to make the Windows implementation of `remove_dir_all` easier to understand and work with by separating out different concerns into their own functions. The code is mostly the same as before just moved around. There are some changes to make it more robust against races (e.g. two calls to `remove_dir_all` running concurrently). The module level comment explains the issue.
try-job: x86_64-msvc
try-job: i686-msvc
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