Peel off explicit (or implicit) deref before suggesting clone on move error in borrowck, remove some hacks
Also remove a heck of a lot of weird hacks in `suggest_cloning` that I don't think we should have around.
I know this regresses tests, but I don't believe most of these suggestions were accurate, b/c:
1. They either produced type errors (e.g. turning `&x` into `x.clone()`)
2. They don't fix the issue
3. They fix the issue ostensibly, but introduce logic errors (e.g. cloning a `&mut Option<T>` to then `Option::take` out...)
Most of the suggestions are still wrong, but they're not particularly *less* wrong IMO.
Stacked on top of #128241, which is an "obviously worth landing" subset of this PR.
r? estebank