Rename `with_source_map` as `set_source_map`. Because `with` functions
(e.g. `with_session_globals`, `scoped_tls::ScopedKey::with`) are for
*getting* a value for the duration of a closure, and `set` functions
(e.g. `set_session_globals_then` `scoped_tls::ScopedKey::with`) are for
*setting* a value for the duration of a closure.
Also fix up the comment, which is wrong:
- The bit about `TyCtxt` is wrong.
- `span_debug1` doesn't exist any more.
- There's only one level of fallback, not two.
(This is effectively a follow-up to the changes in #93936.)
Also add a comment explaining that `SessionGlobals::source_map` should
only be used when absolutely necessary.