27b1b04065
Tone down explanation on RefCell::get_mut
The language around `RefCell::get_mut` is remarkably sketchy and especially to the novice seems to quite strongly discourage using the method ("be cautious", "Also, please be aware", "special circumstances", "usually not what you want"). It was added six years ago in #40634 due to confusion about when to use `get_mut` and `borrow_mut`.
While its signature limits the use-cases for `get_mut`, there is no chance for a safety footgun, and readers can be made aware of `borrow_mut` more softly. I've also just sent a [PR](https://github.com/rust-lang/rust-clippy/issues/9044) to lint situations where `get_mut` could be used to improve ergonomics and performance.
So this PR tones down the language around `get_mut` and also brings it more in line with [`std::sync::Mutex::get_mut()`](https://doc.rust-lang.org/stable/std/sync/struct.Mutex.html#method.get_mut).