rustc_errors: only box the `diagnostic` field in `DiagnosticBuilder`.
I happened to need to do the first change (replacing `allow_suggestions` with equivalent functionality on `Diagnostic` itself) as part of a larger change, and noticed that there's only two fields left in `DiagnosticBuilderInner`.
So with this PR, instead of a single pointer, `DiagnosticBuilder` is two pointers, which should work just as well for passing *it* by value (and may even work better wrt some operations, though probably not by much).
But anything that was already taking advantage of `DiagnosticBuilder` being a single pointer, and wrapping it further (e.g. `Result<T, DiagnosticBuilder>` w/ non-ZST `T`), ~~will probably see a slowdown~~, so I want to do a perf run before even trying to propose this.
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