Refactor some `std` code that works with pointer offstes
This PR replaces `pointer::offset` in standard library with `pointer::add` and `pointer::sub`, [re]moving some casts and using `.addr()` while we are at it.
This is a more complicated refactor than all other sibling PRs, so take a closer look when reviewing, please 😃 (though I've checked this multiple times and it looks fine).
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_split off from #100746, continuation of #100822_
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