Properly define va_arg and va_list for aarch64-apple-darwin
From [Apple][]:
> Because of these changes, the type `va_list` is an alias for `char*`,
> and not for the struct type in the generic procedure call standard.
With this change `/x.py test --stage 1 src/test/ui/abi/variadic-ffi`
passes.
Fixes#78092
[Apple]: https://developer.apple.com/documentation/xcode/writing_arm64_code_for_apple_platforms
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