Fix in-place collection leak when remaining element destructor panic
Fixes#101628
cc `@the8472`
I went for the drop guard route, placing it immediately before the `forget_allocation_drop_remaining` call and after the comment, as to signal they are closely related.
I also updated the test to check for the leak, though the only change really needed was removing the leak clean up for miri since now that's no longer leaked.
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