Refactor `#[diagnostic::do_not_recommend]` support
This commit refactors the `#[do_not_recommend]` support in the old parser to also apply to projection errors and not only to selection errors. This allows the attribute to be used more widely.
Part of #51992
r? `@compiler-errors`
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