This adds the `only-apple`/`ignore-apple` compiletest directive, and
uses that basically everywhere instead of `only-macos`/`ignore-macos`.
Some of the updates in `run-make` are a bit redundant, as they use
`ignore-cross-compile` and won't run on iOS - but using Apple in these
is still more correct, so I've made that change anyhow.
apparently I missed some tests in the last commit. Rather than having
dozens of tests use the long version, use the short version in
`run-make` and the long version in `run-make-fulldeps` (which is now
only three tests)