This commit removes the `IndexMut` impls on `HashMap` and `BTreeMap`, in
order to future-proof the API against the eventual inclusion of an
`IndexSet` trait.
Ideally, we would eventually be able to support:
```rust
map[owned_key] = val;
map[borrowed_key].mutating_method(arguments);
&mut map[borrowed_key];
```
but to keep the design space as unconstrained as possible, we do not
currently want to support `IndexMut`, in case some other strategy will
eventually be needed.
Code currently using mutating index notation can use `get_mut` instead.
[breaking-change]
Closes#23448
