Box the biggest ast::ItemKind variants
This PR is a different approach on https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/pull/81400, aiming to save memory in humongous ASTs.
The three affected item kind enums are:
- `ast::ItemKind` (208 -> 112 bytes)
- `ast::AssocItemKind` (176 -> 72 bytes)
- `ast::ForeignItemKind` (176 -> 72 bytes)
This makes it possible to have both std::panic and core::panic as a
builtin macro, by using different builtin macro names for each.
Also removes SyntaxExtension::is_derive_copy, as the macro name (e.g.
sym::Copy) is now tracked and provides that information directly.
